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How to Manage (Insidious) Insubordination?

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Helen Strong
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Helen Strong
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How to Manage (Insidious) Insubordination?

Insubordination is the act or behavior of refusing to obey orders from a person in a position of authority (power). Insidious insubordination is the malignant, malicious, vicious, malign, nasty, evil form of it.

How would you deal with a subordinate who is trying to destroy you as a manager, while you do not have the full and open support of top management?

Insubordination is typically hidden and definitely not clearly visible. But it's totally destructive to the business – and to the manager who is being targeted. But the damaging outcomes are not immediately apparent until problems arise and reconciliation attempts are made.

I am observing following real-life situation. A female manager is responsible for the management information system in a male-dominated freight organization with 2 sites where the movement of goods is captured into the software – and then the organization knows the volume and type of goods passing through its portals. It can let clients know (real-time) where their goods are; arrival dates; and whether there are any hitches along the way. That is if everyone plays their part in capturing the right data.
Now assume that one of the site managers is feeling slighted because they want to be in charge. And who wants to work for a woman anyway? How do you get rid of her? Simple. Sabotage the system. Don't assist the data capture clerks. Don't maintain the databases. Refuse database access to colleagues. Lodge a formal complaint because you resent the fact that SHE told you to come right, and is trying to get you to do your job. All stressful and time consuming.

How should she manage this situation?
Ideally top management need to accept that the situation is happening. They need to take account of the hard evidence of the situation. Then they should provide support to the female who is trying to bring an errant bullying subordinate to book.
From the manager's side she needs a great deal of EQ. She has to have the ability to toss off the agitation caused by being blamed for the figures always being wrong. She needs to continue to point out (in writing) to the site-manager where his responsibilities have not been met. When holding meetings, or in phone conversations, record them, or ensure independent observers are present. She also has to manage her stress; take steps to re-establish her standing given the reputational damage of the false complaint.
Secondly: she needs to ensure the software automatically provides controls. i.e. it needs to balance movement of goods into and out of ports with the contracts and invoicing that are indicated via alternative entry points in the software system.
Thirdly: her administration needs to be comprehensive. It is a matter of compiling documentation of everything with timelines. Evidence of the site manager's failure to perform. Minutes of meetings held to investigate what is happening. Circulate the proposed solutions put forward by the female manager.
And if all the above does not work, gather evidence that says she can actually perform – and look for a position where she is appreciated. Difficult but not impossible.

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How to Manage a Saboteur?

If an employee you are managing is disagreeing with you once in a while then in my opinion that's fine and even welcome provided he/she is backing up their point of view with good arguments.
But if an employee is trying to destroy you as a manager for personal reasons and disobeys you in an insidious way and is even sabotaging assets of the company then that is in my opinion totally unacceptable. This person simply has to be fired asap.
The only thing you need to do before is to make sure you have a good case to present it to your superiors and also for legal reasons. So collect appropriate evidence, have a meeting with the person, say their behavior is totally unacceptable, give a formal warning and then at the first reoccurrence fire the person. You should ask a lawyer for detailed legal advice WRT the needed evidence and procedure.

  Ahmad Sultan Abdulla
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Ahmad Sultan Abdulla
Consultant, Malaysia
 

Managing Insubordination

This happens in a lot of organisations and in particular where hierarchical changes have occurred. A new manager steps in to take over from the old, and the old team is resistance to change.
This is where leadership skills and in particular EQ / SQ skills becomes very relevant. Engaging the old team members and listening to their issues, and giving them the context behind why the change happened and how their help and support is critical for you and the organisational growth may get them engaged. Motivating the team and buying their support is the first rule of thumb. But there will always be some who will never change whatever you do. Collect evidence of sabotage and performance issue and prepare for termination. Be fair and make sure it is justified.
Management support is absolutely critical. If you do not have management support, then you are set up to fail. Walk away and save yourself from stress and preserve your credibility. In order to get management support you must present hard evidence and not just "talks" It is incumbent on the manager to prove with hard evidence of such insubordination and sabotage exist, and is not a fickle of one's imagination. List the actions you have taken to try to resolve the situation. Managers will need to review the context from both sides as sometimes insubordination does have a good reason behind it.

  Prof. Arup Barman
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Prof. Arup Barman
Professor, India
 

Before Managing Insubordinate Employee- Assess How Much a Superior Insubordinated to His Subordinates!

In my life, I have seen subordinates usually want to support their superior. But, superiors' misbehaviour also matter to ponder over. Many superiors are hypocrites. At the time of managing superiors use false love, false compassion, silent dictatorship, and discrimination as the tools for managing their subordinates. Once a subordinate understands this with evidence then this moves like a contagious virus through the minds of all levels of subordinates under control.
So before assessing the insubordination of subordinates the manager should assess his self how he deprived mental-psychological rights. A top to bottom attitude matters. Leaders are often not that wise as the collective mind of subordinates.

  Borje Vickberg
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Borje Vickberg, Sweden
 

Diagnosis First

Insidious Insubordination is a malignant diagnosis. Beware if the therapy is "blind obedience". The diagnosis can be incorrect....

  Wilma van Velde
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Wilma van Velde
Coach, Netherlands
 

Tips to Manage Insubordination

Managing insidious insubordination requires a delicate balance of assertiveness, communication, and clear boundaries. Here are some tips to handle it effectively: IDENTIFY THE ISSUE: Understand wh... 22-4-2024

 

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